What does Simon have to say about answering booty calls for “friendly” no-strings-attached sex with your ex.

I broke up with my fiancé three months ago. We both realized it was just never going to work out. The only place we really got along was in the sack — in fact, it was the best sex I’ve ever had. I’m starting to date again, but I’m in no rush to get into another relationship. He’s been calling me, asking me to come over for a visit. I know we’ll end up sleeping together if I do. Would it be OK to see him just for booty calls, as long as we’re both clear on the rules?

—Tempted

Dear Tempted,

We might have come close to having a female president, but those old double standards still apply when it comes to dating. Any girl still getting it on with her ex is liable to be branded with a scarlet S if she’s also pursuing new love interests — not to mention the fact that you’re putting a major roadblock in the way of any serious future romance. However, what I’m reading between the lines here is that your relationship with your ex is not truly over. If it was, you’d be looking forward, not back.

J Golf

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Sorry...I could not disagree more. We live in a new time, a new age and as active adults we have our needs. If she (and he) both realize that it is just being a friend with benefits no one
gets hurt..In fact if the sex is as good as she says it is--they both probably have BIG smiles
on their faces

Tuesday 06 January 2009, 07:09

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Kimberly

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Could you help me. Sometimes love will pick you up by the short hairs...and jerk the heck out of you.
I am from Palau and also now teach English, give please true I wrote the following sentence: "Instant access to reservations information for airlines."

Thanks for the help ;), Kimberly.

Wednesday 15 April 2009, 10:53

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drgoodhands

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If it's just about the relief of tension or just to feel good why not masturbate? Having sex with an ex keeps you in limbo as to what you really want which is to make a significant connection with another person. If your ex was the person you wanted to spend your time with you would of never ended the relationship. Do you want to go forward in your life or remain mired in the past?

Tuesday 06 January 2009, 07:30

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