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The Secret of "The Secret"
Sunday, January 03 2010
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When bad things happen to good people a positive outlook is needed more than ever.

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A few years ago the book The Secret came out and was a pop-culture rage. It wasn’t a new idea, but packaged nicely and the concept did reach a new audience with the message that our life will follow our thoughts. What you expect is what you get, and what you expect is a matter of making a conscious decision. Dwell on negative thoughts and guess what you get? A negative life. Dwell on positive thoughts and receive an entirely different result — same person, same situation — but an entirely different destiny.

Of course, the conscious creation of a positive life is often easier said than done. Bad things do happen to good people ― even when they’re busy thinking positive thoughts.

People are laid off because of the bad economy, their pets get old and need to be put to sleep, their children get into trouble at school, and a relationship ends. That’s when any kind positive thinking becomes a real challenge because it feels like “the secret” doesn’t work.

But that’s when we need to dig deep and decide to get up on the inside regardless of the circumstances. It takes courage and it takes determination but we can do it – if we really want to. It requires taking steps of faith even when we are stepping out in complete darkness, trusting that no difficulty will keep us down for long. Find strength in adversity. That is my wish for you in 2010! Make it a happy New Year!

Kim Calvert
Editorial Director
Singular magazine + singularcity.com
avatar Glamourous
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Happy New Year to you too Kim!
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avatar Carole j McCoy, artist
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There is no secret to th obviou, that life for us spiritual-humans understand, that ther are seasons for us all. We should not be blind to the spring, summer, winter, and fall of our lives. A new year means to me to let go of the past. Never are we at the finish line of transformation.On the peaks we see into our valley expiriences, and in the valley we get to imagine what the top of the peak is like. So with this, lets be creative, more loving, more grateful, and live in the neighborhood of hope.
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avatar Monica
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Thanks for the reminder Kim! I choose happy, I choose prosperous, I choose success! Rather than dwelling on what a disaster 2009 was, I envision an amazing 2010. Life is about choices, and thoughts are things...
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avatar Fabiana
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I am a firm believer that "the secret" is inside our heart. Sometimes we expect big miracles to happen and we lose sight of all the little ones that take place around us everyday in our lives. When I first read The Secret, a few years back, I was so eager to materialize all my positive thoughts, of course nothing was happening. I realize that I have so many good things in my life so maybe my thoughts have gone in the right direction? Who knows, but like Monica says life is about choices. I could not imagine that the choice to leavr LA and move back to Italy would have brought me so much happiness, but here I am 15 years later and everything feels just right !!
Happy New Year, Kim and to the rest of the forum !
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avatar Kim at SingularCity
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Wow! Hi Fabiana my wonderful friend! How nice to hear from you here. Hope you will continue to be a participant in our Singular magazine forum!
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avatar Emma
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Very valuable thoughts. Happy New Year Kim!
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